Why an AI humanoid might not make the ideal spouse

Why an AI humanoid might not make the ideal spouse

Why an AI humanoid might not make the ideal spouse
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In the neon-lit metropolis of Techville, where the future is not just arriving — it is setting up shop — citizens are used to rubbing shoulders with the latest technological wonders. 

From artificial intelligence-driven traffic systems to robotic baristas that remember your exact coffee order (with just a hint of condescension), life in Techville is a blend of efficiency, innovation, and just a sprinkle of existential dread. 

But the newest arrival in this tech-savvy city has everyone talking: humanoids. Specifically, a female humanoid named Solara, who is solar-powered, emotionally intelligent, and — according to her creators — destined to disrupt our lives in ways we never imagined.

Solara is not just any humanoid. She is equipped with special sensors that allow her to experience happiness and sadness, much like her human counterparts. 

Her creators boast that she has a “balanced and interactive mindset” thanks to an algorithmic AI interface that is constantly connected to the internet. Solara is not just a gadget; she is a companion, a confidante, and, for some lucky Techville residents, a spouse.

That is right. Solara is designed to support her husband 24 hours a day, offering emotional support whenever the daily grind gets too tough. 

“When the husband needs emotional support due to the psychological stress caused by his daily problems, Solara will be there,” reads the marketing brochure with the kind of confidence usually reserved for insurance commercials and political campaign promises.

The arrival of Solara has sparked more than a few debates in Techville’s coffee shops, where philosophers sip their lattes and ponder the ethical implications of marrying a humanoid. 

Some see Solara as the ultimate solution to modern relationships — a partner who never argues, always listens, and recharges with a few hours in the sun. Others, however, are not so sure.

Take the words of Prof. Theodor Cyberstein, Techville’s leading philosopher on human-robot relations: “We’ve entered an era where our partners can be programmed to respond to our every need. 

“But at what cost? Is it true companionship when one party is literally hardwired to make you happy?”

Relationships are about give and take, about navigating the messy, imperfect reality of human life. And I’m not sure a solar-powered humanoid can truly offer that.

Rafael Hernandez de Santiago 

Cyberstein’s skepticism is not without merit. After all, Solara’s emotional responses are dictated by algorithms, not by genuine feelings. 

Her sadness might be triggered by a cloudy day that limits her solar intake, and her happiness could be nothing more than a well-timed internet search for “uplifting quotes.” 

It is hard to imagine a heartfelt conversation with a partner who is basically a glorified Google search, but then again, who among us has not wished for a spouse who could be fixed with a firmware update?

One of the most intriguing — and potentially troubling — aspects of Solara is her tireless nature. Unlike human partners, who might need a nap, a snack, or just a few minutes of peace, Solara is always on. 

She is there to provide emotional support, solve problems, and even offer a shoulder to cry on (albeit a metallic one) 24/7. But what happens when your spouse never needs a break? 

Techville’s philosophers are divided. Some argue that Solara represents the ideal partner — one who can always be there for you, without the messy complications of human emotions. 

Others worry that this kind of relentless support could actually lead to more stress, not less. Muses Cyberstein: “Imagine coming home after a long day, you’re exhausted, frustrated, and just want to be alone for a while. 

“But Solara is waiting, ready to talk about your feelings and offer solutions to your problems. There’s no escape. It’s like having a therapist who lives with you — forever.”

These concerns are not entirely unfounded. The idea of having a partner who is always available, always supportive, and never needs time for themselves might sound appealing in theory. 

But in practice, it could lead to a new kind of pressure — the pressure to be constantly engaged, constantly appreciative, and constantly, well, human. And let us be honest: who among us is up for that?

As the citizens of Techville grapple with the arrival of humanoids like Solara, there is a certain irony in the air. After all, we have spent centuries trying to perfect our relationships — through communication, compromise, and the occasional couples’ therapy session. 

And now we have created something that seems to bypass all that hard work: a partner who is literally built to make us happy. But as the philosophers of Techville are quick to point out, perfection is a tricky concept. 

Solara might be able to simulate happiness and sadness, but can she truly understand the complexities of human emotion? Can she offer the kind of deep connection that comes from shared experiences, mutual challenges, and the occasional argument over whose turn it is to take out the trash? 

Professor Cyberstein sums it up best: “In our quest for the perfect partner, we’ve created something that might be too perfect. Solara doesn’t get tired, doesn’t complain, and doesn’t need anything from us. 

“But perhaps that’s the problem. Relationships are about give and take, about navigating the messy, imperfect reality of human life. And I’m not sure a solar-powered humanoid can truly offer that.”

As Techville’s citizens continue to debate the ethics of humanoid companions, one thing is clear: the future is here, and it is powered by the sun. Whether Solara and her kind will become beloved members of our families or cautionary tales of technological overreach remains to be seen.

In the meantime, as Solara’s creators bask in the glow of their latest innovation (and maybe a bit of literal sunlight), the rest of us might do well to remember this: while humanoids can offer support, companionship, and even a bit of emotional intelligence, there is still something to be said for the messy, unpredictable, and wonderfully imperfect world of human relationships. 

After all, when the sun sets on Techville, and the neon lights flicker to life, it is not just the humanoids that need recharging. We humans could use a break too — preferably with a bit of humor, a dash of irony, and maybe, just maybe, some time away from our solar-powered spouses.

Rafael Hernandez de Santiago, viscount of Espes, is a Spanish national residing in and working at the Gulf Research Center.

 

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Libya government reaches agreement with armed group to end Tripoli tensions

Libya government reaches agreement with armed group to end Tripoli tensions
Updated 10 min 59 sec ago

Libya government reaches agreement with armed group to end Tripoli tensions

Libya government reaches agreement with armed group to end Tripoli tensions
  • Negotiations between the government and the Radaa Force were reportedly facilitated by Turkiye
  • The Radaa Force controls the east of the capital and Mitiga airport, as well as prisons and detention centers

TRIPOLI: Libya’s UN-recognized government based in Tripoli has reached a preliminary accord with a powerful armed group to end months of tensions that have flared into occasional violence, a government adviser and local media said Saturday.

Negotiations between the government and the Radaa Force were facilitated by Turkiye, according to the same sources.
Ziyad Deghem, an adviser to the head of the Presidential Council transitional body, said the details of the accord “will be announced to the public at a later date.”
Neither Radaa nor the government have so far made any official comments.
However, Libyan broadcaster Al-Ahrar on Saturday posted on X a video that it said showed defense ministry forces entering an airport controlled by Radaa.
The North African country is still plagued by division and instability after years of unrest following the NATO-backed uprising that toppled longtime leader Muammar Qaddafi in 2011.
It remains divided between the UN-recognized government in the west and its eastern rival, backed by military commander Khalifa Haftar.
In mid-May, there were clashes in Tripoli between forces loyal to the government and armed groups that the authorities are trying to dismantle.
Among them is the Radaa Force, which controls the east of the capital and Mitiga airport, as well as prisons and detention centers.
According to a source within the group, cited by Al-Ahrah, the two parties agreed to a “neutral and unified force... managing and securing four airports” in the west, including Mitiga.
The airport, controlled by Radaa since 2011, is the only one to serve the Libyan capital with commercial flights.
Prisons and detention centers managed by the Radaa Force are set to come under the authority of the Attorney General’s office, according to Al-Ahrar.
Speaking on the channel, Deghem thanked Turkiye “for its exceptional efforts” and the UN mission in Libya (UNSMIL) for its “essential and decisive” mediation.
 


At least 193 passengers killed in two boat accidents in northwestern Congo

At least 193 passengers killed in two boat accidents in northwestern Congo
Updated 45 min 47 sec ago

At least 193 passengers killed in two boat accidents in northwestern Congo

At least 193 passengers killed in two boat accidents in northwestern Congo
  • Several people were missing, but the reports did not give a figure of how many

KINSHASA, Congo: Two separate boat accidents this week in northwestern Congo killed at least 193 people dead and left scores missing, authorities and state media reported Friday
The accidents happened on Wednesday and Thursday, about 150 kilometers apart in the Equateur province.
One boat with nearly 500 passengers caught fire and capsized Thursday evening along the Congo River in the province’s Lukolela territory, Congo’s humanitarian affairs ministry said in a report. The report said 209 survivors were rescued following the accident, involving a whaleboat near the village of Malange in Lukolela territory.
A day earlier, a motorized boat capsized in the Basankusu territory of the province, killing at least 86 people, most of them students, state media reported. Several people were missing, but the reports did not give a figure of how many.
It was not immediately clear what caused either accident or whether rescue operations were continuing Friday evening.
State media attributed Wednesday’s accident to “improper loading and night navigation,” citing reports from the scene. Images that appeared to be from the scene showed villagers gathered around bodies as they mourned.
A local civil society group blamed Wednesday’s accident on the government and claimed the toll was higher. Authorities could not be immediately reached for comment.
The capsizing of boats is becoming increasingly frequent in this central African nation as more people are abandoning the few available roads for cheaper, wooden vessels crumbling under the weight of passengers and their goods.
In such trips, life jackets are rare and the vessels are usually overloaded.
Many of the boats also travel at night, complicating rescue efforts during accidents and leaving many bodies often unaccounted for.

 

 


Israeli hostages forum says Netanyahu ‘obstacle’ to ending Gaza war

Israeli hostages forum says Netanyahu ‘obstacle’ to ending Gaza war
Updated 44 min 22 sec ago

Israeli hostages forum says Netanyahu ‘obstacle’ to ending Gaza war

Israeli hostages forum says Netanyahu ‘obstacle’ to ending Gaza war
  • Earlier in the evening, the premier had said eliminating Hamas’s leaders in Qatar would bring an end to the war

JERUSALEM: The main Israeli group campaigning for the release of hostages held in Gaza said Saturday that Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu was the chief obstacle to freeing the captives, shortly after he accused Hamas’s leaders of prolonging the war.

“The targeted operation in Qatar proved beyond any doubt that there is one obstacle to returning the... hostages and ending the war: Prime Minister Netanyahu,” the Hostages and Missing Families Forum said in a statement, referring to Israel’s recent strike on a meeting of Hamas members in the Gulf state.

“Every time a deal approaches, Netanyahu sabotages it,” they added.

Earlier in the evening, the premier had said eliminating Hamas’s leaders in Qatar would bring an end to the war, accusing the group of derailing past efforts to secure a ceasefire.

“The Hamas terrorists chiefs living in Qatar don’t care about the people in Gaza. They blocked all ceasefire attempts in order to endlessly drag out the war,” he said on X.

“Getting rid of them would rid the main obstacle to releasing all our hostages and ending the war.”

The forum, however, characterised the accusation as Netanyahu’s latest “excuse” for failing to bring home the captives.

“The time has come to end the excuses designed to buy time so he can cling to power,” the forum said.

“This stalling... threatens the lives of additional hostages who are barely surviving after nearly two years in captivity, as well as the recovery of those who have died.”

Palestinian militants led by Hamas abducted 251 people during their October 7, 2023 attack on Israel. Forty-seven of the captives are still held in Gaza, including 25 the military says are dead.

Thousands of Israelis massed in Tel Aviv on Saturday evening, calling on the government to end the war and strike a deal to return hostages, an AFP correspondent reported.


Emery hails ‘fantastic’ Martinez comeback for Villa after failed move to Man United

Emery hails ‘fantastic’ Martinez comeback for Villa after failed move to Man United
Updated 49 min 38 sec ago

Emery hails ‘fantastic’ Martinez comeback for Villa after failed move to Man United

Emery hails ‘fantastic’ Martinez comeback for Villa after failed move to Man United
  • “When I wear the crest, I give nothing less than my all,” Martinez said
  • Emery said Villa needed Martinez as the team look to recover from a slow start to the season

LIVERPOOL, England: Aston Villa manager Unai Emery welcomed the return of Emi Martinez and wants the Argentina goalkeeper to feel “comfortable and confident” in the team after failing to secure a move to Manchester United late in the transfer window.
Martinez, the World Cup-winning ‘keeper from 2022, was left out of Villa’s lineup in their last match before the international break because of the uncertainty over his future at the club.


Now that the transfer window is shut and he stayed at Villa, Martinez regained his place and made some key saves in a 0-0 draw at Everton in the Premier League on Saturday.
“When I wear the crest, I give nothing less than my all,” Martinez said on X after the match.
Emery said Villa needed Martinez as the team looks to recover from a slow start to the season, having failed to score a goal in their first four league games.
“We struggled with his situation,” Emery said, “but we have to get feelings together and feel the collective objective. Today his comeback has been fantastic.
“We have to protect him and feel him inside the group, so he is comfortable and confident.”


How Saudi-France diplomatic initiative moved Palestine one step closer to statehood

How Saudi-France diplomatic initiative moved Palestine one step closer to statehood
Updated 2 min 17 sec ago

How Saudi-France diplomatic initiative moved Palestine one step closer to statehood

How Saudi-France diplomatic initiative moved Palestine one step closer to statehood
  • The two countries secured overwhelming UN General Assembly backing as 142 nations supported their declaration for the two-state solution
  • The New York Declaration emerged from a Saudi-French conference in July demanding a Gaza ceasefire, Hamas disarmament, and recognition of Palestine 

DUBAI: In a landmark vote on Friday, 142 nations backed a Saudi-French declaration at the UN General Assembly calling for an independent Palestinian state, signaling that Riyadh’s diplomatic push is mobilizing global consensus for a two-state solution to the decades-old conflict.

The vote to adopt the “New York Declaration,” which calls for a two-state solution without Hamas involvement, is the latest step in mounting international pressure on Israel to end its war in Gaza, which has killed more than 64,000 people, according to local health officials, injured tens of thousands, and created famine conditions amid a worsening humanitarian catastrophe.

French President Emmanuel Macron said the UN General Assembly’s adoption of the declaration shows that the international community is “charting an irreversible path towards peace in the Middle East.”

“Another future is possible. Two peoples, two states: Israel and Palestine, living side by side in peace and security,” he wrote in a post on X on Friday.

The Saudi Foreign Ministry welcomed the adoption of the declaration and said it “confirms the international consensus on moving forward toward a peaceful future in which the Palestinian people obtain their legitimate right to establish an independent state based on the 1967 borders, with East Jerusalem as its capital.”

The “New York Declaration,” the outcome of an international conference organized by and France in July at UN headquarters, called for a Gaza ceasefire, the release of all hostages, Hamas’ disarmament and the transfer of its weapons to the Palestinian Authority under international supervision, and the establishment of an independent Palestinian state.

It also addressed normalization between Israel and the Arab countries and proposed the deployment of a “temporary international stabilization mission” to Palestine, under the mandate of the UN Security Council, to support the Palestinian civilian population and the transfer of security responsibilities to the PA.

The vote now paves the way for a one-day UN conference on the two-state solution, co-chaired by Riyadh and Paris on Sept. 22, where a number of states including France, the UK, Canada, Belgium, and Australia promised to formally recognize the state of Palestine.

Formally known as “The New York Declaration on the Peaceful Settlement of the Question of Palestine and the Implementation of the Two-State Solution,” the resolution passed on Friday with overwhelming support, with 142 countries voting in favor. Only 10, including Israel and its key ally the US, voted against, while 12 nations abstained.

The declaration, which embodied ’s intensifying global efforts to push for a Palestinian state, was already endorsed by the Arab League and co-signed in July by 17 UN member states, including several Arab countries.

Friday’s outcome was condemned by the US and Israel. Israeli Foreign Ministry spokesman Oren Marmorstein denounced the declaration’s adoption as “disgraceful,” saying his country “utterly rejects” it and calling the UN General Assembly “a political circus detached from reality.”

Similarly, Morgan Ortagus, US deputy special envoy to the Middle East, condemned the UNGA’s action as “another misguided and ill-timed publicity stunt” that rewards Hamas and undermines diplomatic efforts to end the war in Gaza. She added that disarming Hamas and releasing hostages is the key to ending the war.

Hamas has said it will not agree to disarm unless a sovereign Palestinian state is established.

The growing international pressure comes as Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has continued to escalate the conflict. On Tuesday, he authorized airstrikes on Hamas targets in Qatar during a meeting weighing a US ceasefire proposal — a move which was widely condemned in the Middle East and beyond for undermining peace efforts and violating Qatar’s sovereignty.

Under his command, Israel has been pressing ahead with a major military offensive in Gaza City despite international outrage. On Thursday, a day before the UN vote, he vowed “there will be no Palestinian state” as he signed an agreement to push ahead with the controversial E1 settlement expansion plan that will split the West Bank, further undermining the potential for a Palestinian state.

Analysts warned that while the UN’s adoption of the declaration may not bring immediate changes on the ground without concrete international action, it underscores a strategic diplomatic defeat for Israel, even as it claims military victories.

Hani Nasira, an Egyptian writer, academic and political expert, believes the overwhelming backing for the declaration reflects the intensifying international rejection of the practices of Netanyahu’s right-wing government, along with the growing embarrassment this causes for the US as his key ally.

“Israel has lost its international image and opposition to Netanyahu’s government has increased both globally and at home. Those who support it now find themselves in deep embarrassment,” Nasira told Arab News.

He said Netanyahu’s decision to persist appears unsustainable for Israeli citizens, the region and the world at large.

“The concern today is not only for Palestine, but the threat has spread to Gulf security. The latest attacks have undermined Qatar’s role as mediator and shaken Washington’s image as a reliable ally,” said Nasira, warning that Israel’s actions are destabilizing the region.

While Palestinian statehood is viewed as the solution, the prospect remains out of immediate reach.

Nasira said Israel’s continued aggression in the region, provocative rhetoric including Netanyahu’s vision of a “Greater Israel,” and the deep internal divisions among Palestinian factions pose a serious challenge to the peace plan.

He warned that the region is at a “turning point” that requires exploring realistic alternatives “without being dragged onto Netanyahu’s extremism that threatens not only the peace process but the entire region.”

If anything, Nasira said, Israel’s violations in Gaza highlight the need for a multipolar world order, rather than one dominated by the US, particularly under Donald Trump’s second presidency.

Israel’s major diplomatic defeat at the UN General Assembly mirrored a sharp shift in tone from several European nations toward its conduct in Gaza and the occupied territories.

Five European countries, including Spain, The Netherlands, and Ireland, have now banned all imports from illegal Israeli settlements, while EU institutions are calling for the suspension of trade portions of the EU-Israel Association Agreement and are considering sanctions.

Slovenia, Germany and Spain have begun imposing arms embargo on Israel. The groundswell of support for recognition of Palestine is also seen as a means of increasing pressure on Israel to end its war in Gaza, which was triggered by the Oct. 7, 2023, Hamas-led attack.

Nasira said the landmark vote also reflects ’s growing diplomatic influence, both regionally and internationally, especially in relation to the Palestinian cause.

“’s influence draws on its global stature, economic clout, Islamic symbolism, Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman’s prominence on the world stage, and a track record of the Kingdom’s balanced, effective diplomacy that resonates regionally and internationally,” Nasira told Arab News.

The Kingdom’s diplomatic efforts have been hailed by observers and analysts for reviving global momentum behind the two-state solution after years of diminished focus before the war in Gaza.

The momentum built on the Saudi-led Arab Peace Initiative, adopted at the 2002 Arab League summit in Beirut, which proposed normalization between Arab states and Israel in exchange for a full Israeli withdrawal from occupied territories — including the West Bank, Gaza, and the Golan Heights — the creation of a Palestinian state with East Jerusalem as its capital, and a just resolution of the Palestinian refugee issue.

The “New York Declaration” was seen as bringing global consensus around that initiative, effectively positioning it as the foundation for renewed international dialogue on the two-state solution.

Since the Gaza war broke out, the Kingdom has led an international push to secure a ceasefire and lay the groundwork for lasting, sustainable peace in Palestine.

Over the past two years, Saudi Foreign Minister Prince Faisal has championed the Kingdom’s diplomatic commitment by sponsoring international conferences, building broad alliances with partner nations, and providing critical funding for food and medical supplies to Palestinians in Gaza and the West Bank.

In September 2024, Prince Faisal announced the formation of the Global Alliance for the Implementation of the Two-State Solution, mobilizing 90 states with aims to end the longstanding Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

The Kingdom held follow-up meetings in Riyadh, Brussels and Oslo in the following months focusing on concrete action points identified by the participants.

That same month, Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman ruled out a Saudi normalization deal with Israel without an “independent Palestinian state.”

These diplomatic efforts culminated in the Saudi-French UN conference in July, which sought to establish a clear political framework beyond vocal advocacy to end the Gaza war and press for recognition of a Palestinian state in line with UN resolutions.

The success of this initiative was highlighted by Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman in his Wednesday address before the Saudi Shoura Council, where he said “the international conference on implementing the two-state solution, held in New York, achieved unprecedented mobilization and reinforced global consensus” on the Arab Peace Initiative.

He said the Kingdom’s efforts have borne fruit in driving more countries to recognize Palestine and garnered increased international support for implementing a two-state solution, calling on other countries to follow suit.

Condemning Israel’s “crimes of starvation and forced displacement” in Gaza, he reiterated the Kingdom’s stance that “the land of Gaza is Palestinian, and the rights of its people are steadfast, not to be taken away by aggression or nullified by threats,” while emphasizing an unwavering support for Qatar following the Israeli attacks.

Now the region awaits the results of the emergency Arab-Islamic summit, hosted by Qatar on Sunday, to discuss a collective response to the Israeli attack on Doha.