Israeli soldiers, and their mothers, increasingly reject calls to return to Gaza

Israeli soldiers, and their mothers, increasingly reject calls to return to Gaza
As Israel calls up tens of thousands of reservists for its invasion of Gaza City, a growing number of soldiers — and their mothers — are saying no. (AFP/File)
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Updated 12 September 2025

Israeli soldiers, and their mothers, increasingly reject calls to return to Gaza

Israeli soldiers, and their mothers, increasingly reject calls to return to Gaza
  • The defiance is emerging as Israelis have joined mass protests accusing Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu of prolonging the war for political purposes

Many opponents, including former senior security officials, fear that the latest offensive will achieve little and put the hostages at risk

TEL AVIV: As Israel calls up tens of thousands of reservists for its invasion of Gaza City, a growing number of soldiers — and their mothers — are saying no.
There are no official figures, but newly formed groups are broadcasting their refusal to serve despite the risk of imprisonment. It’s a new phenomenon in the nearly two-year war sparked by Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023, attack, though so far it has had no apparent effect on military operations.
The defiance is emerging as Israelis have joined mass protests accusing Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu of prolonging the war for political purposes instead of reaching a deal with Hamas to bring back the remaining 48 hostages, 20 of whom are believed to be alive.
Many opponents, including former senior security officials, fear that the latest offensive will achieve little and put the hostages at risk. Israel also faces heavy international criticism over the humanitarian catastrophe unleashed by the war and its blockade.
One group calling on Israel’s leaders to stop sending their children into war is comprised of mothers who fear their sons will die in vain.
“I couldn’t stop thinking of how to break his leg, break his arm, wound him in some way that he won’t be able to go back,” Noorit Felsenthal-Berger said as she wiped tears from her cheeks, terrified her youngest son will be forced to return.
Fatigue and dwindling morale
Avshalom Zohar Sal, a 28-year-old soldier and medic who served multiple tours in Gaza, said soldiers are exhausted, demoralized and no longer know what they are fighting for.
His doubts first surfaced last year, when he was serving in an area near where six hostages were later killed by their captors as Israeli troops closed in. “I felt this was my fault,” he said.
His skepticism deepened during his most recent tour, in June, when he saw troops returning to the same areas where they had fought earlier in the war. He said some soldiers seemed less focused, leaving them vulnerable to attacks from a vastly diminished but still lethal Hamas.
“Don’t put me in the position that I need to decide if I’m going to risk again my life,” he said, addressing the military.
A group known as Soldiers for Hostages says it represents more than 360 soldiers who refuse to serve. While the number remains small, it is a contrast from the early days of the war, when reservists rushed for duty in the wake of the Oct. 7 attack. Such refusal is punishable by imprisonment, but that has only happened in a handful of cases.
“Netanyahu’s ongoing war of aggression needlessly puts our own hostages in danger and has wreaked havoc on the fabric of Israeli society, while at the same time killing, maiming and starving an entire population” of civilians in Gaza, Max Kresch, a member of the group, said at a Sept. 2 news conference.
Another group known as “Parents of Combat Soldiers Shout Enough,” also known by its slogan “Save Our Souls,” or SOS, says it represents nearly 1,000 mothers of soldiers. A similar movement was credited with helping to end Israel’s 18-year occupation of southern Lebanon in 2000.
“We have to be their voice,” said Felsenthal-Berger, whose two sons have fought in Gaza. The group has held protests around the country, met with government officials and published letters. She says her sons, including one on active duty, are no longer in Gaza. She says they support her efforts but have not officially refused to serve.
Yifat Gadot says her 22-year-old son, who fought in Gaza for nine months at the start of the war, told her that soldiers there felt like sitting ducks. More than 450 Israeli soldiers have been killed since the start of the 2023 ground invasion, according to the army.
“I told him, ‘We the mothers will do everything we can to get you out of Gaza and save you from this political war,’” she said.
Some of the women have encouraged their sons to refuse to report back for action in Gaza, while others say they respect their son’s decisions. All say their message is aimed primarily at the country’s leaders.
Netanyahu’s office declined to comment.
Israelis are fed up, but military service is ‘sacrosanct’
Israel’s call-up of 60,000 reservists is the largest in months, in a country of fewer than 10 million people where military service is mandatory for most Jewish men. Many have already served multiple tours away from their families and businesses.
The Israeli government’s failure to draft ultra-Orthodox men into the military has added to their anger. Religious men have long avoided military service through exemptions negotiated by their politically powerful leaders, who have been a key component of Netanyahu’s government. That has fueled resentment among the broader public — a sentiment that has grown during nearly two years of war.
The military does not provide figures on absences or refusals and says each case is evaluated on its merits. “The contribution of the reservists is essential to the success of missions and to maintaining the security of the country,” it said.
At least three soldiers associated with the Soldiers for Hostages group have been imprisoned this year for refusing to serve, with some jailed for up to three weeks, the group said.
Support for the war ran high after Hamas-led militants attacked southern Israel on Oct. 7, killing some 1,200 people, mostly civilians, and abducting 251.
But sentiment has changed over the course of the war, especially since Israel ended a ceasefire in March that had facilitated the release of hostages. The war has killed more than 64,000 Palestinians, according to Gaza’s Health Ministry. The agency doesn’t say how many of the dead were civilians or militants, but says about half the dead were women and children.
A recent poll found that around two-thirds of Israelis, including about 60 percent of Israeli Jews, think Israel should agree to a deal that includes the release of all the hostages, the cessation of hostilities and the complete withdrawal of Israeli forces from Gaza.
The poll, conducted by the Israel Democracy Institute in the last week of August, surveyed 600 people in Hebrew and 150 people in Arabic. It has a margin of sampling error of 3.6 percentage points.
Hamas has long said it would accept a deal along those lines, but Netanyahu has refused. He has said the war will end only when all the hostages are returned and Hamas is disarmed, with Israel maintaining open-ended security control over the territory.
Mairav Zonszein, a senior analyst with the International Crisis Group, said that pushing soldiers in a deeply divided country to keep fighting could have a lasting impact on Israel’s capabilities.
Many believe that divisions over a planned judicial overhaul in 2023, which generated mass protests and threats from soldiers not to serve, weakened Israel ahead of the Oct. 7 attack.
Still, refusing military service remains a red line for many in Israel. “The military, and serving in it, is still sacrosanct,” Zonszein said.


No one could stop it: Sudanese describe mass rapes while fleeing El-Fasher

No one could stop it: Sudanese describe mass rapes while fleeing El-Fasher
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No one could stop it: Sudanese describe mass rapes while fleeing El-Fasher

No one could stop it: Sudanese describe mass rapes while fleeing El-Fasher
  • Reports have emerged of mass killings, sexual violence, attacks on aid workers, looting and abductions in a city where communications have largely been cut off

TAWILA: Sudanese mother Amira wakes up every day trembling, haunted by scenes of mass rapes she saw while fleeing the western city of El-Fasher after it was overrun by paramilitaries.
Following an 18-month siege marked by starvation and bombardment, El-Fasher — the last army stronghold in the western Darfur region — fell on October 26 to the paramilitary Rapid Support Forces (RSF), which have been at war with the military since April 2023.
Reports have since emerged of mass killings, sexual violence, attacks on aid workers, looting and abductions in a city where communications have largely been cut off.
“The rapes were gang rapes. Mass rape in public, rape in front of everyone and no one could stop it,” Amira said from a makeshift shelter in Tawila, some 70 kilometers (43 miles) west of El-Fasher.
The mother of four spoke during a webinar organized by campaign group Avaaz with several survivors of the recent violence.
Avaaz gave the survivors who participated in the webinar pseudonyms for their safety.
Doctors Without Borders (MSF) said more than 300 survivors of sexual violence had sought care from its teams in Tawila after a previous RSF assault on the nearby Zamzam camp, which displaced more than 380,000 people last spring.
“The RSF have carried out widespread sexual violence across towns and villages in Sudan to humiliate, assert control and to forcefully displace families and communities from their homes,” Amnesty International warned in April.
The rights group has documented conflict-related sexual violence by both the army and RSF — particularly in the capital Khartoum and Darfur — and denounced “over two decades of impunity for such crimes, particularly by the RSF.”

- Nighttime assaults -

In Korma, a village about 40 kilometers northwest of El-Fasher, Amira said she was detained for two days because she could not pay RSF fighters for safe passage.
Those unable to pay, she said, were denied food, water and the ability to leave, and mass assaults took place at night.
“You’d be asleep and they’d come and rape you,” she said.
“I saw with my own eyes people who couldn’t afford to pay and the fighters took their daughters instead.
“They said, ‘Since you can’t pay, we’ll take the girls.’ If you had daughters of a young age, they would take them immediately.”
Sudan’s state minister for social welfare, Sulimah Ishaq, told AFP that 300 women were killed on the day El-Fasher fell, “some after being sexually assaulted.”
The General Coordination for Displaced People and Refugees in Darfur, an independent humanitarian group, had documented 150 cases of sexual violence since the fall of El-Fasher until November 1.
“Some incidents occurred in El-Fasher and others during the journey to Tawila,” Adam Rojal, the organization’s spokesman, told AFP.

- Raped at gunpoint -

Last week, the UN confirmed alarming reports that at least 25 women were gang-raped when RSF forces entered a shelter for displaced people near El-Fasher University in the city’s west.
“Witnesses confirmed that RSF personnel selected women and girls and raped them at gunpoint,” Seif Magango, spokesperson for the UN human rights office, said in Geneva.
Mohamed, another survivor who joined the Avaaz webinar from Tawila, described how women and girls of all ages were searched and humiliated in Garni, a town between El-Fasher and Tawila.
“If they found nothing on you, they beat you. They searched the girls, even tearing apart their (sanitary) pads,” he said.
In Garni, before reaching Korma, Amira said that RSF leaders would “greet people,” but as soon as they left, the fighters who stayed behind began torturing them.
“They start categorising you: ‘You were married to a soldier.’ ‘You were affiliated with the army,’” she said.
She also described seeing men slaughtered with knives by RSF fighters. “My 12-year-old son saw it himself, and he is now in a bad psychological state,” she said.
“We wake up shivering from fear, images of slaughter haunt us.”
More than 65,000 people have fled El-Fasher since its fall, including more than 5,000 who are now sheltering in Tawila, which was already hosting more than 650,000 displaced people, according to the UN.
In Tawila, hundreds of people have huddled together in makeshift tents in a vast desert expanse, scrounging together what they can to prepare food for their families, AFP video shows.
Rojal of the General Coordination for Displaced People and Refugees in Darfur warned that the situation “needs immediate intervention.”
“People need food, water, medicine, shelter and psychological support,” he said.