What We Are Reading Today: Pico Iyer’s essay ‘The Joy of Quiet’

What We Are Reading Today: Pico Iyer’s essay ‘The Joy of Quiet’
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Updated 21 May 2025

What We Are Reading Today: Pico Iyer’s essay ‘The Joy of Quiet’

What We Are Reading Today: Pico Iyer’s essay ‘The Joy of Quiet’

Pico Iyer’s essay “The Joy of Quiet” dissects modern life’s paradox: the louder our world grows, the more we crave silence. The essay was first published in 2012 in The New York Times.

With the precision of a cultural surgeon, Iyer — a travel writer famed for his meditative prose — exposes how digital noise erodes human connection, leaving us drowning in a sea of notifications yet thirsting for meaning.

But this isn’t a diatribe against technology; it’s a forensic examination of our collective burnout.

He maps a silent counterrevolution emerging in the unlikeliest corners: Silicon Valley CEOs fleeing to Himalayan monasteries, Amish-inspired “digital sabbaths” trending among younger generations, executives paying to lock away their phones and nations like Bhutan trading gross domestic product for “Gross National Happiness” as radical acts of cultural defiance.

Iyer’s genius lies in reframing silence as an insurgent act of self-preservation. A Kyoto temple’s rock garden becomes a “vacuum of stillness” where fractured minds heal; a tech mogul’s secret retreats — funded by the same wealth that built addictive apps — mock his own industry’s promises of liberation.

The essay’s sharpest insight? Our devices aren’t just distractions but “weapons of mass distraction,” systematically severing us from presence, empathy and the sacred monotony of undivided attention.

Critics might argue Iyer romanticizes privilege (not everyone can jet to a Balinese silent retreat), yet his message transcends class: in an age of algorithmic overload, solitude becomes not a luxury but psychic armor.

He anticipates today’s “attention economy” battleground, where mindfulness apps monetize the very serenity they promise to provide.

His closing warning: “We’ve gone from exalting timesaving devices to fleeing them,” feels prophetic in 2025, as AI chatbots colonize conversation and virtual reality headsets replace eye contact.

Less self-flagellating than Orwell’s colonial reckonings, “The Joy of Quiet” offers no easy answers.

Instead, it dares readers to ask: When every ping demands obedience, what revolution begins with a silenced phone? What if reclaiming our humanity starts not with consuming more but with the radical courage to disappear?


What We Are Reading Today: ‘The First King of England’ by David Woodman

What We Are Reading Today: ‘The First King of England’ by David Woodman
Updated 09 October 2025

What We Are Reading Today: ‘The First King of England’ by David Woodman

What We Are Reading Today: ‘The First King of England’ by David Woodman

“The First King of England” is a foundational biography of Æthelstan (d. 939), the early medieval king whose territorial conquests and shrewd statesmanship united the peoples, languages, and cultures that would come to be known as the “Kingdom of the English.” In this panoramic work, David Woodman blends masterful storytelling with the latest scholarship to paint a multifaceted portrait of this immensely important but neglected figure, a man celebrated in his day as much for his benevolence, piety, and love of learning as he was for his ambitious reign.


Book Review: ‘Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir’

Book Review: ‘Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir’
Updated 08 October 2025

Book Review: ‘Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir’

Book Review: ‘Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir’

In Ina Garten’s 2024 memoir, “Be Ready When the Luck Happens,” she traces her journey from a lonely childhood in Connecticut to her rise as a popular Food Network darling.

Known as the warm, unflappable “Barefoot Contessa,” Garten reveals a complicated past — but not always in ways that fully savor the reader’s attention.

Viewers of her cooking show, by the same name, know Jeffrey E. Garten as her dutiful husband who emerges at the end of each episode to sample her dishes.

I grew up watching her program and admiring the recipes she created. And while it was cute at first, I admittedly felt like the Jeffrey cameos were my least favorite part.

Although their little chitchats were the most consistent part in her signature program, it felt slightly forced. Similarly, in the memoir, the frequent returns to him — and the constant referral to his Ivy League education — begin as intriguing but quickly become repetitive and tedious.

Before her beloved Jeffrey was in the picture, she writes candidly about her childhood as Ina Rosenberg, under the rule of a strict doctor father and controlling dietitian mother, noting that she and her older brother “each felt like an only child.”

She stated how she always loved preparing food, but her parents did not support this passion. Instead, her role as a young person was to study — even a meal with family was filled with geography quizzes and she couldn’t fully enjoy the food.

These passages offer insights into her desire to escape that monotone existence and indulge in carving her own path, like she would later carve a chicken on her show.

Garten then goes, once again, into excruciating detail about meeting Jeffrey in the 1960s and being courted by him while in college. As she moved into adulthood, they were married in 1968 and she quickly adopted his last name and seemingly became fully immersed in all things related to him.

While her devotion was charming at first, it also highlighted a detachment from her former life and identity, leaving readers with skimpy glimpses of Ina Rosenberg but mostly following the orbit of her chasing her husband’s world and gaze.

Garten also mentions her early years working in Washington, D.C., before abruptly leaving it on a whim to buy a small food shop in the Hamptons, the origins of the Barefoot Contessa brand — something her parents disapproved of.

Jeffrey, of course, was ever supportive and they made that long-distance marriage, at the time, work. Her account of building the shop into a thriving business is easily the most compelling section of “Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir.” Wish we lingered there in more pages.

To me, the book felt like the main focus was her distaste for her late parents and her utter devotion to Jeffrey, with Ina Garten herself as a side dish in her own story.


What We Are Reading Today: We the People by Jill Lepore

What We Are Reading Today: We the People by Jill Lepore
Updated 08 October 2025

What We Are Reading Today: We the People by Jill Lepore

What We Are Reading Today: We the People by Jill Lepore

In “We the People,” Harvard professor of history and law Jill Lepore offers a sweeping, lyrical, and democratic constitutional history, telling the stories of generations of Americans who have attempted everything from abolishing the Electoral College to guaranteeing environmental rights.

Lepore argues that the framers never intended for the Constitution to be kept, like a butterfly, under glass, but instead expected that future generations would be forever tinkering with it, improving the machinery of government.


What We Are Reading Today: All Consuming by Ruby Tandoh

What We Are Reading Today: All Consuming by Ruby Tandoh
Updated 07 October 2025

What We Are Reading Today: All Consuming by Ruby Tandoh

What We Are Reading Today: All Consuming by Ruby Tandoh

In this startlingly original, deeply irreverent cultural history, Ruby Tandoh’s “All Consuming” traces how our culinary tastes have been transformed; how they’ve been pulled into supermarket aisles and seduced by Michelin stars, transfixed by Top Chefs and shaped by fads.

“All Consuming”  is a deep dive into the social, economic, cultural, legislative, and demographic forces that have reshaped our relationship with food.


What We Are Reading Today: ‘Bodypedia’ by Adam Taor

What We Are Reading Today: ‘Bodypedia’ by Adam Taor
Updated 06 October 2025

What We Are Reading Today: ‘Bodypedia’ by Adam Taor

What We Are Reading Today: ‘Bodypedia’ by Adam Taor

“Bodypedia” is a lively, fact-filled romp through your body, from A to Z. Featuring almost 100 stories on topics ranging from the beastly origins of goosebumps to the definitive answer to the Motown classic “What Becomes of the Brokenhearted,” these fascinating tales from your entrails explore the wonders of anatomy, one body part at a time.

With a keen scalpel, Adam Taor peels away the layers to bring your under appreciated insides to light.